where do you put it?

your snot? you pick your nose at a stoplight and what do you do? fling it out the window? rub it onto the steering wheel? under the seat? i paste 'em behind my legs, smudging in layers of crust that read like tree rings, dating all deposits. or on my sock. who's gonna look at my sock? on foot i smear lamp posts, like insect sperm, glistening on an aluminum pole. when i'm sick and the spew of phlegm is infinite and no surface can retain it, i fill a grocery bag with little bird's of discarded tissue. rubber cementy boogers are rolled into bee bee's and flicked across the living room floor. hard fingernails of nose shale i drop like bark onto linoleum. what else? i'm a watcher. i want to see what others do. a kid in chapel, in 3rd grade, had one finger knuckle deep, eyes glassy, as he withdrew a glob and pasted it as if with a paintbrush across his school sweater, a diagonal tape worm Pollock-ing a narrow filthy front. my next-door-neighbor threatened: 'i bet i can make you moo-oove.' 'no ya caa-an't' 'yes i caa-aan'. a perpetual snot river ran out of his nose, down his upper lip and into an open mouth, green-yellow slugs. he'd gob 'em up into a french twist, like cotton candy, raise it over his head and that's when you ran, the boy at your heels snorting his nose off. a friend in high school, shuffling up a receiving line at a debutant party, flobbed an oyster onto the exposed tit of the girl who's tiny Chinese hand he was shaking. it landed like egg yolk and quivered as if wondering what to do with itself. her mom, all brisk Philadelphia efficiency, whisked out a hanky and dabbed the doo doo off the tit. 'never you mind,' she might have said. my dad, squirming like a salmon against the current of grey flannel suits on their way to work, was fighting for a seat on the commuter rail. he harked back a flapjack of goo, collecting it in his throat and zinged a slo-mo parabola at the idiot running in front of him. the target clapped his hand on the back of his neck as if shot. dad surged ahead, knees pumping and made his train. and then there's the pocket hanky conundrum. in college my East African room mate had grown up in Zanzibar. over there you press finger to nostril, close it off and fire your product onto the sidewalk, grass, tarmac, toilet, wastebasket or desert sand. he thought it unclean to save the dried deposits in a hanky. so i adopted his slingshot approach. i loved it. it made perfect sense, but it got me into trouble in Central Square. i was mid-snort, head down and didn't see the kid approaching, hand up for a high 5. friend, fan, who knows? what i do remember is that my ju ju flew like a mortar onto his brand new Converse All-Star. i will never learn. i am, as the girls at Doyles say: 'gross'.